STOP Saying This to Single Women!

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After spending yet another holiday season without a significant other, I voiced my frustration on a certain social network in full view of my friends. I wasn’t expecting a reaction; just using it as … [Read more...]

Single for the holidays

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Last Friday, I went to happy hour with friends, and found myself having a very pleasant conversation with another woman who’d joined our party. As we made small talk, I asked her what she was doing … [Read more...]

Taken for Granted

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Many of you may be able to attest to the loss of special loved ones. I have experienced many losses over my 30 years which would include the loss of my sister, my grandparents(both sets of maternal … [Read more...]

Stay or Go

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How do you know when enough is enough? When dating someone you really like and care about one of the toughest decisions you will have to make, is whether to stay or go when you begin to feel that the … [Read more...]

How To Tell If The Person You’re Dating Is Crazy

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If it’s one thing that I have learned when it comes to dating, it is that perception is everything. … [Read more...]

Are You A Talker?

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It has been said that I am a "talker".  I must say, I agree. I love to give my opinion on just about any subject, whether I am an expert in it or not, it doesn't matter, so long as I can chime in … [Read more...]

A Blessing in the Recession

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The national unemployment rate in the United States is at an all-time high. Even worse, the unemployment rate for the African-American Community is at an even more alarming rate. … [Read more...]

Closer Than Most:Friends With Benefits

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Can men and women, be just friends? This is a question that has plagued many, and in the 1989 hit film, When Harry Met Sally, Billy Crystal’s character tells Meg Ryan that men and women cannot be … [Read more...]

Miracles Still Happen/Reboot Your Life Day 2

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Have you ever felt hopeless?  I’m sure we have all felt that way once in our lives.  At work, me and my students had the awesome opportunity to raise a monarch butterfly from its chrysalis (or … [Read more...]

Just Friends

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We’ve all been there, men and women alike. You meet someone, and you’re excited about making a new friend. After weeks of late night phone conversations, sharing your hopes, dreams, and … [Read more...]